They say as you get older you gain more friends. When in actual sense, as you grow older, you lose more friends because now you can tell who the real ones are and who the users are and who the enemies are.
Also, bunch of rubbish when people say “keep your friends close but keep your enemies closer“.
Kill your enemy with an ever lasting smile. Kill your enemy with succeeding.
Start saying no to the users.
Give more time to your real friends.
And if you don’t know who your real friends are, you’re on your way to learning, very soon.
Life’s too too too short to keep grudges and poke your nose into other peoples business.
While they’re out there doing what they do best, you’re sitting at your desk scrolling through their Facebook profile hating on them?
If you have time to complain and whine about something, then you have the exact same time to do something about it.
We can never be the judge of others, that’s God’s job.
But we can judge ourselves and improve ourselves. And make ourselves the ultimate catch.
If you work on yourself first, you will attract all good things your way. Not saying the bad won’t appear, it actually does, more often than usual. But as long as you’re aware of it and know how to deal with it, it’ll go away.
Everything’s temporary. Just like all things, it will pass.
I recently heard this at a friends graduation and it’s gonna be stuck with me for a long while… “It’s not about finding yourself, it’s about creating yourself”
So get out there, create yourself and watch how you create the best for you AROUND you as well.
I’m taking part in the National Blog Posting Month! I’ve committed to posting something everyday till the 30th of November! Hope you enjoy the absolute random reads and would love feedback too! Feel free to drop a comment at the bottom.